Decide You Want More (Because Wealth Doesn’t Happen by Accident)

Let’s skip the cute introductions and get straight to it.
Some of the biggest shifts in my life started with one quiet, almost easy choice: I decided I wanted more.

More peace.
More freedom.
More options.
More money.

And look, the decision doesn’t magically solve your problems. But it does open the door to a version of you who is no longer pretending smallness is a personality trait.

When it comes to money, that first step matters most:

Step 1: Decide you want to be rich.

Say it out loud if you have to. Whisper it if you’re still getting comfortable with it.
If you don’t decide, your brain has nothing to work with.

Your mind is basically a loyal intern. It’ll try, but it needs direction. Tell it:
This year, we’re building wealth.

And suddenly, behind the scenes, your mind starts connecting dots you never noticed before. Clarity shows up. Ideas show up. Opportunities you used to scroll past without blinking start looking awfully promising.

Step 2: Visualize your wealthy life every morning and every night.

One minute. Eyes closed.
See the home that feels like ease.
See the bank account that doesn’t make you clench your jaw.
See the confidence of someone who moves through the world with options.

This isn’t wishful thinking. It’s training your mind to look for solutions, resources, and pathways you used to ignore. Humans filter out most of their environment. Visualization rewrites the filter.

Step 3: Become a student of wealth.

Read the books.
Learn the principles.
Study the systems people actually use.
Build small habits that stack into big freedom.

Money grows best in the hands of a woman who is growing herself.

Step 4: Get around people who normalize wealth.

This one… changes everything.

Wealthy rooms think differently.
Wealthy conversations sound different.
And wealthy people don’t shrink their dreams to make others comfortable.

Get in those rooms however you can:
Online communities
Podcasts
Events
Books
Seminars
Even upgrading your environment for a weekend

You don’t have to know anyone personally. You just have to immerse yourself until “wealthy” stops feeling foreign.

Because once your mind accepts wealth as normal, you stop treating money like it’s some distant, intimidating thing meant for “other people.”

When you do these four things consistently, wealth becomes a lot less mysterious… and a lot more inevitable.

It stops being a fantasy.
It becomes a practice.
A rhythm.
A lifestyle you grow into one decision, one habit, one aligned action at a time.

You don’t have to overhaul your life today.
You just have to decide you’re done playing small with your money.

Everything else unfolds from there.