Choosing a victim mindset hands your power to everyone but you. Choosing vulnerability, though, is choosing courage, curiosity, and emotional responsibility. Victimhood keeps you stuck in blame loops, chaos, and defensiveness, while vulnerability lets you stay rooted in integrity and open to connection. Most of us play both roles at times, but only vulnerability reconnects us to our strength. The magic is in realizing you already are enough and that your story changes the moment you decide to tell it from power instead of pain.
